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writes:okay so here is the thing. i date my current boyfriend. well his used to be best friend called me and left me a message saying he wanted to go out with me, the thing is i've known him for 5 years and i used to be in love with him in 3rd grade! i've only known my boyfriend for 6 months and we have been dating on and off because he keeps breaking up with me. should i try to start on a new boyfriend and sees what happens in this relationship? another thing is that this guy is my best friends X and she used to be sooo much in love with him. i think she still has feelings for him. i don't cheat but i don't know what to do. if i stay in this relationship i never get to see my boyfriend. this guy lives down the road from me and he could come to my house any day, :/ i don't know what to do. will someone help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): It's mean to date your boyfriend's old friend.
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (2 January 2009):
i think you should reconsider it all to be honest. your doubting your 'relationship' as soon as somebody else comes along and your not even completely into him so maybe thats not your problem right now. you give the impression you want a boyfriend whos around a lot but hun you cant just make do because he includes what your askin for. and do you still like him that much? you say you were in love but imnot gtting that from it, loves a strong thing to use and from what i can make out you havent experianced it yet and rather than making do until you do you should simply hold on a bit longer. why not enjoy the single life? socilize and find you way first. plus they guy knows your with somebody else but still asks you out! for me hes kind of making trouble that doesnt need to be there.
you have to make a descion and stick to it. nobody can force you but you dont seem happy so id make a complete fresh and maybe focus n yourself a bit more? youve been wrapped up in this and it messes up your head why not take time out sort of thing. you can throw yourself back into dating any time but if you have a fresh mind your more likely to get better results! sorry if ive come across as harsh i just dont think your hearts in either. best of luck xxx
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