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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone,Well my problems has nothing to do about sex. I know a lot of people and im a pretty fun person to be around but I have a problem trusting people as friends because from multiple past experiences friends have been fake back stabbers. I have an amazing boyfriend and he's my only real best friend. I work and go to school but on the few days I have off I normally spend it with him, but today has made me realize how lonely I really am and how my life truely revolves around him. We went jogging this morning as usual but I wanted to go out with him today but he had already made plans to hang out with his best friend whom he barely sees. Now I'm home alone and bored on a beautiful day, I wanna go out but I feel like I don't have any friends who I can pick up the phone and call so we can hang out. Im so used to hanging out with my boyfriend that when he's not around I feel lonely. I have 2 other good friends but one of them lives ina completely different bourough from me and the other one is always working or with her boyfriend. I really don't trust anyone else other than them or my boyfriend. What do you guys think I should do? I am a senior in highschool and im not even going to my prom or graduation because I feel like I wouldn't enjoy myself because I've isolated myself from everyone to prevent anymore unnecessary drama. I used to be really popular but now I'm still known but choose not to mingle.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (25 May 2008):
 Hi Sweetheart
You really have to work on your trust issues and self esteem to feel comfortable with you..Happy with the person you are inside and not feel lonely hun, Im going to send you some links to help you overcome this lonely spell as you dont want it to carry on and lead to depression sweetheart....I understand were your coming from and its not nice love....
http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html
This is a really good site with tons of info and help, not all will apply but its a good way to start getting back in there and uping your confidence hun....
http://www.srichinmoybio.co.uk/blog/meditation/how-to-gain-control-of-your-own-thoughts/
Here is a wonderfull meditation link gives you lots of insight sweetheart I hope these help hunny message me anytime you need a chat TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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