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reader, audreymillicent  +, writes (21 July 2012):
audreymillicent is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey i am thanking u guys for helping me in my situation thanks a lot u have no idea how it feels to have gud frendz like u around i have made it known to him so thankz again
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 July 2012):
 If he thinks you're so easy to forget then forget about HIM.
If he loves you he will remember you, always. If he loves you he will never forget about you, even if you never meet again.
He just wants to use you for sex.
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reader, Cinnafox  +, writes (20 July 2012):
Lol that is the funniest line ever... guys can hardly remember what they ate for breakfast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): It sounds to me like he may end the relationship when you go and that's why he wants sex with you now before you go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): Sorry got that slightly wrong, he wants to sleep around while you're at college.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): That's awesome haha, the worst emotional blackmail crap I've ever heard a guy say. "If you don't have sex with me, I'll forget you when I go to college." Oh how romantic. If you were Irish you would have slapped him in the face right then and there.
He's a liar and a womanizer still otherwise why would he says something like that?
Want to know his plan? He wants to bone you before he goes to college so he can add you to his bed post because he wants to sleep around in college and he knows you won't like this and he will lose his chance of ever having sex with you when he does go to college because he wants to sleep around there.
He only wants to use you OP.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 July 2012):
 If he can't remember you without having sex, he isn't worth the time, honey.
Go off to school without having sex with him. At least you won't get knocked up and have to decline Uni.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 July 2012):
 DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM! Having sex with a man is not a way to have him keep you in his mind… IF you are still with him when you return from university you can have sex with him then if you want. Tell him the anticipation of your encounter will keep you firmly in his mind.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 July 2012):
 If he is so worried he might forget you give him a framed photograph instead.
This is just a variation of the old "if you really loved me" line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): If he says that he wants to stick to only you then why does he need to have sex with you so bad before he goes? Don't do it. Nobody should be pressured into having sex when they don't want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): Regardless of what you may read here, his true intention is impossible to be known by us, and so are his feelings.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (20 July 2012):
 Don't do it. Any guy who is serious about you would not give you this kind of ultimatum...especially before going to college. You have enough to concern yourself with and now he is heaping on more pressure. The fact you have come for advice shows how hesitant you are which is good. Of course any guy wanting sex from you is going to say he has stopped his womanizing...even if he hasn't. Just because you've been going out for 11 months does not mean you should have sex.
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