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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm confused about my ex boyfriends behaviour.We were one anothers first loves and were together little over 2 years. We broke up as he cheated on me. Anyway, 2 years down the line he is still talking to me every week, calling me, ringing me. He tells me he loves me a lot and tells me how he shows pictures of me to his friends (i'm a model, so I assume that is why?) he also feels the need to tell me when ever he has sex with another girl or when he is going on a date, and asks me all the time if I am dating or sleeping with anyone. I When he's drunk, he begs me to get back with him. When he's sober he denies it, and says he would never get back with him as we made each other unhappy. I have tried to get rid of him from my life, but he always manages to worm himself back in. So I decided to be friends with him and try my best not to get too attached.I do love him still, but I know deep down he isn't right for me. But, what is wrong with him? All these mixed messages from him, what does he actually want from me?
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (1 May 2012):
 What do you want from him? He worms his way back in because you stay in contact with him. Sounds like you still have feelings for each other but feelings aren't enough to get back together. You're both trapped in this vicious circle where you never break contact long enough to get over each other then one contacts the other and the circle starts again.
Break off contact to give yourself and your ex time to think about what you want and what you both gain by maintaining contact.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (1 May 2012):
 Hi well beacuse he cheated on you and betrayed you when you where together I think you should draw the line, he is probably scared of you moving on and loosing you so trying to get into your head all the time so you don't..
Find a man that respects you and wouldn't disrespect you..
Good luck :)
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