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writes:I don't dance. I don't drink. But I'm a girly-girl, I love to go out and have fun with my friends and him.Today I asked him how come you never take me clubbing?" we been together 2 years. He had the audacity to say to me "out of all the people I can take? Why would I take you?" then he says "your embarresing your not going to do anything. You are just going to sit there." I was offended by this comment but I didn't say a word. As always I never know when to defend my self with him. We always end up arguing when I do and it always turns out to be my fault. Should I be upset? Would he ratter me go dance in the bar while others guys try to feel up on me. The way I see it No thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Go clubbing with your friends and please please start to dance.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 If he can go clubbing without you ,then you can go clubbing with your friends. See how he would respond to that idea.
Learn to dance and it don't take much effort to learn dancing.
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reader, RyanS  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Yes, you have the right to be upset. Very uncaring of him to speak to you like that when you care for him.
It happens with most people, that when something like this is said (in love or in business), you don't know what to reply but you know that the other person is being unfair.
So many guys will love to have a gf like you, who is sober and careful, yet girly.
You must tell him that you did not appreciate his comment.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Dancing in the bar doesn't mean getting felt up does it? I sure hope not, that would be tragic as I love dancing... But I've heard in certain areas that can be a problem!
What about the fun of company you bring, conversations, laughing? And you can have non-alcoholic drinks, they taste great as well! Like non-alcoholic pina colada's, daquiris.. yumm yumm! And mudslides, if you're into chocolate. If you choose to add alcohol or not is your choice and your boyfriend should respect that. And by respect I mean respect you enough to bring you along clubbing with him. You not getting drunk, and you not dancing, aren't really good excuses. Tons of people don't dance and still go out...
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