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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I am hoping that someone can help me with this I have had in my life now for nearly 7 months.Recently I broke up with my beautiful partner in November and due to personal issues that he was having he said that he needed time to get himself sorted out, which is was not what eother one of us wanted but I agreed to do it.Since that time we have beeen up and down like a yoyo, we have both requested time apart for a bit so that we can move to a friendship level, and when I agree to do this (if he has requested) it lasts for a couple of weeks of his part and then he ends up making contact with me saying that he needs to talk to me about something and I make him feel so secure and safe and happy when he is with me.I have tried to request time apart but I do not want to loose him out of my life and I have tried to accept that he will be with other people but we are both seeminly drawn back to each other, like we can't let go.We still miss each other and he tells me this all the time when I see him also how much he loves me, although I really want to hear this I cant deal with this anymore I am taking this really hard and I cant understand or keep it bottled up anymore, can someone please help me out here.
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reader, cindy 15  +, writes (25 May 2010):
 when some people hear i still love you some people say it out of sypathy to not hurt you feeling and to say i need time by myself usually means i need time away from you i say forget this girl and find a girl who deserves your love
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