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writes:I have a little bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have a great time when we are in the bed room. Although, he can give me oral for hours or rub me and it never gets me off. What can I do to fix my issue? Reply to this Question
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reader, littlesuziepie +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Are you really attracted to him? I would think maybe you need to be more attracted to the person before you can really enjoy this. I agree with the last reply. You shouldn't think about how your not coming and just relax and think about nothing and let the feeling take over and consume your being.
Try and let everything go blank and just feel.
You might not be fully comfortable with who you are with and the situation. Is this your first sexual encounter? If so then it could be nerves. Have you always been attracted to men? Just men? I don't know much about your sexual perf and if its always been that way. Because It could be a lot of things. More toward the mental rather than physical parts of this expireance.
Basically relaxing is a good place to start and don't rush things. My boyfriend and I had issues I thought maybe he was attracted to men and didn't want to admit it because he had a hard time cumming or staying hard. We talked about it and realized that he was thinking the entire Time about not being good enough. Wanting to rush it because I was thinking he didn't like me or what we were doing and that just ruined it even more. When he relaxes and dosent think much of anythng but the feelings we can have a great sexual expireance together. So try that. I hope it works for you because sex is a great thing to share with someone special and one of the most rewarding things in love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Since you're not a woman the first post probably isn't of much help!
I used to have the same problem and occasionally still do. For me I just had to stop thinking about it as the more I thought I should cum the harder that was. Be patient, it will happen!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Can you please yourself?? There are a few different G spots on a woman and if you find them yourself, you should indiscreetly direct him to those spots. With a little sweet coaching and the ability to really let yourself trust him, you should have success. good luck....there's nothing sweeter.
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