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writes:I don't know what I should do here...please someone helpRecently I met this girl online and we hit it off and all that fun stuff, anyway we both kinda fell for each other, however we live a ways away from each other and I have a good feeling it won't work, how do I tell her this? I want to hurt her as little as possible. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 August 2008):
There is no gentle or kind way to tell someone you don't love them and don't want to be with them.
You just have to tell her why you are unhappy with the relationship and why you want to end it. She has her chance to talk you out of it, but you are still not convinced then you simply say you are sorry and then leave.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Just be open and honest with her, honestey is the best policy and she will respect you for not leading her on. Tell her that you have really enjoyed your chats online with her, but at this stage in your life you are not looking for a relationship.
Hope it goes well
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reader, GenericBrand +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Dude, just be straight with her. Tell her that you just don't think things are working out.. Be honest.. Don't just say what you think they want to hear.. Say what you think and what you feel.. If you think you'll be interested in giving it another shot maybe a few months down the road.. you'll both still be in love when that time comes around.. If it's true love that is..
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