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My boyfriend mentioned my ex's name.

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Question - (17 December 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *idsummer writes:

This morning i asked my bf if he liked that i said his name during sex and he said he did. That it was much better then saying ( ex name) or something else. I thought it was super weird that he said my ex name since ive never mentioned it to him. Just once i called him my ex name but it was a stupid mistake. and i didnt even say his correct name i said like a nickname. and when he asked i said it was my friends dog name. and he believed me , so why this sudden act and what should i do??

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 December 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyeah you are over thinking this and taking it too seriously.

just smile and say "ok" and keep going...

and know that everyone calls folks by the wrong name now and then....

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (18 December 2013):

largentsgirl89 agony auntYou shouldn't do anything. You asked a question, he answered. He probably picked up that you were lying when you said your exes nickname. Perhaps he found out through a mutual friend that the name you said was your exes nickname.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (18 December 2013):

Ciar agony auntYou should do nothing. There is nothing to do. You asked him a question and he answered you.

There is no reason to think there was some hidden meaning in what he said.

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (17 December 2013):

Atsweet1 agony auntI thought my lover mentioned he hate chu or heart u couldnt quite make it out in the breathing reps of it while in the act I clearly heard it took it as a warning for future reference.

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A male reader, Xearo Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (17 December 2013):

I don't understand what you mean by sudden act. Weren't you the one who asked about mentioning names? I think he was just being literal and honest. Even though you said it was a stupid mistake I think that experience for him is not easily forgotten.

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