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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i met this guy a while back just before i met my ex boyfriend. me and this guy was texting for a while and he seemed really nice but all of a sudden he changed his number. i didnt think much of this and just put it down to him not liking me. i then met my ex boyfriend.me and my ex was together a year and split about 4 months ago. then all of the sudden the other guy texts me out of the blue. at first i didnt even know who it was but after him explain i remembered. we have now been texting again but i am worried just incase he blows me off again. i am confused in what he wants or if he wants anything as some days he texts all the time but then i dont hear of him for days and then out of the blue texts again. the first time he did it i wasnt really bothered, but since me and my ex have split i have lost a bit of confidence and think much more into things. i admit i do like this guy but dont want to mess things up again. (even though i dont know what i did the 1st time lol) so could anyone give me any advice on how to go around this without feeling me insure as i already am?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): Just text him - 'are you going to ask me out or just live in my phone'You need to take control here or you will end up confused and even more unsure of yourself.If he doesn't step up and date you then delete his number and ignore him. Then get out and get busy, you need to get over your ex and not focus on this one texter.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): You know how to gain confidance? Change your number and give this guy a taste of his own medicine.1/ you'll feel good that you didn't give him the chance to do it to you.2/ you won't be on eggshells constantly wondering when he will bloow you off.3/ if he can do it once what's to stop him doing it again? After all its probably just a game to him by the sounds of things.Don't risk your pride being wounded all over again for the sake of some guy who hasn't even got the nerve to meet with you in person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): If you're not over your past relationship and you're still feeling low, don't pursue or expect much from a guy who randomly texts you. I say this from experience, it's not worth the headache...especially when you feel insecure.
Wait for a guy who has the stones to ask you on a date and meet you in person.
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