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writes:K so me and my boyfriend started out very well, going out and just chilling with friends. Then there is an 8 year old girl that has a huge crush on him. She would call him early in the morning, try to push me away when I give him a hug... So me and a friend talked to her and it was okay for a week or too... but andrew still was all around her. For ex. I was over his place for i think 3 hours, he was sleeping. As soon as it was 4 oclock he jumped up and ran to get alisha off the bus... And dont think this is a one time thing... It happens every single day.So today he has the day off and I get over there quickly to spend the day with my man, but... he gets called into work, oh well there goes that day! My best friend was there and she was telling me how she was talking about me and him might break up, the girl had a naive grin on her face... today we found a letter saying how much he loves her, and if we have to break up then so be it. It said how he cant wait to see her.dunno what to doAnd it said how they will be moving soon, and how he wants to keep contact with her after she moves away ( remember... she is 8) there is also a sad part because she has an 5 year old sis and she tells me how she feels like alisha gets all the attention... Ive been trying to stand by his side, even though i know its all BS. I just wish someone could open his eyes so he could see she justs does this for attention. I was 8 once, she knows what she is doing. My friends live there and they tell me how he does everything for her, how she begs and stuff, they all call her a little brat. Today he was all excited because she drew him an f-ing picture of a house... Just that letter had so much stuff I couldnt believe it
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reader, confused...  +, writes (6 June 2008):
i don't think you have 2 worry i mean she's eight she can't tell the difference from a boyfriend and a guy friend just be patient it'll pass
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (3 February 2008):
 The child is not at fault here,your b/f seems to be a potential child abuser, this is not the way he should be carrying on with an eight year old child.
You really need to talk this out with him and try and find out the motive behind the way he is treating her in this way, if he can not give you a suitable reason for his actions, then maybe you should report him to the police, he maybe grooming her, so that he can abuse her at a later date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): I don't think your over reacting, there some very strange behaviour coming from your boyfreind. Why is he freinds with a 8yr old? why does he do all these things for her? The whole letter thing saying he dump you pretty freaky too. If you're 100% sure nothing going on between them, then tell your boyfreind you don't think its right he's hanging with an 8yr old girl.
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (3 February 2008):
 Ummm...sounds like you're over reacting a bit unless you've seen them in a compromising situation. I mean, its an eight year old girl. She's not a threat to you unless your man is a pedophile. Children want to be loved and they want to be around people who have a serious care for them. It makes them feel good and like they matter. I know she feels threatened by you because she sees how much he loves you and knows that she can't share in the love that you guys have between each other.
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