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writes:I am aged 54 divorced with no children and would LOVE to change my life. I live in the Uk and want to get out and do other things. I dont seem to have much luck with finding dates or anyone in my life. Luckily I have no financial worries (I am not wealthy but have always been careful) PLEASE can anyone suggest soemthing suitable where I can get out with more people aqnd not be stuck alone in this flat and do soemthing worthwhile. I am sick of my job now and am free to go anywhere.Please any suitable suggestions on how to improve my life which I am just wasting. I have tried clubs but they havent come up with anything-I still go home alone I am still lonely. If I was younger id go on a kibutz but I am too old anything else??????Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you for your replies I have just filled in a foirm about the overseas jobs
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 July 2008):
Why not take a career break and go travelling?
http://www.worldwidehelpers.org/
This website is good if you want to find something good to do while you are off and about.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (5 July 2008):
 If you've got a high tolerance for "false positives" you might try the on-line dating services. They tend to be the "you've got to kiss a lot of frogs" sort of situations, so be prepared to reject a lot of guys who don't measure up if you go that route. I've had pretty good luck with them ... two really solid relationships (one broke up after 2+ years, one I'm still in) since my wife died five years ago. But to do that I've gone through more than 30 "matches" that I've dated, and more than 100 that I've corresponded with.
Hobbies are always good, but for goodness sake pick a hobby with a LOT of MEN and VERY few women. One woman I know, for example, read up and went to the local ham radio club, where virtually all the women are wives of men in the club and there are quite a few single guys. All techies, but she is of a technical bent herself. In short order she had several of the single guys practically fighting to help her study for her license test, and was dating at least one of them as well.
Moral of the story: hunt ducks where the ducks are. The bad news is that after 50 there tend to be a lot more single eligible women than single eligible men out there. The good news is that it DOES work out eventually for just about everybody who keeps on trying.
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