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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has been misleading about where he is and who he is with such as what golf course he is at and what tee times he has and who he is with and says that he is at his friends house but I find out later that he is at a bar , what's up with that?? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 September 2012):
 what's up with him lying to you?
he's got a secret...
what do you two fight about... his drinking? his cheating? his lying?
have you asked him why he's lying?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (7 September 2012):
 What's up with that?
Well it could be that he just wants a little more privacy and doesn't want you knowing his every move...or it could be that he is seeing someone behind your back.
How long have you been together? Do you live together and how are the other areas of your relationship?
He could be concealing his whereabouts for all sorts of reasons but other factors need to be considered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): Do you disapprove of him going to the bar for a drink with his friends? If so, he might be hiding this from you for the simple fact that you'll be angry with him. However, you need to figure out his intentions and the reasons that he's not telling you the truth. If he's lying about one thing, what other things might he be lying about?
Has it crossed your mind that he's at the bar to talk to other women or possibly cheating? You need to sit down and tell him how you feel about his deception and how it makes everything he says put into question due to his lack of credibility. If he values you and fears losing you over this, he will tell you the truth.
If he needs space, he should be able to openly tell you that since you are in a relationship with him and do not deserve to be lied to.
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