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*rashtipatel0118
writes:I hate having this feeling that my boyfriend is always.. 24/7 texting girls. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now but me and him have known each other for over 4 years and have had an on and off relationship. he is much of a private guy.. in school we dont kiss or even act like we are together. when i see him outside of school.. he really shows that he likes me.. and he cant let go of me for a second. but he continuously texts girls. some of the girls he texts dont even know he is with me which he is supposed to tell them. this girl flirts with him so much and she likes him. he lets me read their text msgs and all the girls he texts.. he calls them names as sexy, suga, hun, sweetie or something like that. but he barely uses any nicknames for. and when me and him talk on text msg.. we barely talk. our conversations are so dull and we dont even text that much. he is always texting those girls even when he is on the phone with me. and every time he replies he always has this smirk on his face. he likes the fact that these girls want him. he knows him fliritng upsets me but he still doesnt stop... how do i get him to stop fliritng so much with these girls?? how do i get him to understand that this hurts me a lot and i cant stand the fact that he talks to these girls non stop..even more than me???HELP???
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 I'm sorry sweet :(
But he sounds like a loser anyway. Just look at this as a positive step.
It may seem a hard thing to do right now, but youve gotta remember.. You said yourself the conversations were dull... How were you gonna have a relationship with this lad if you couldn't even have a decent conversation??
And what's worse, you probably wouldn't trust him either, especially texting all those other girls.
Get out there and find yourself a decent bloke who will treat you right!
:)x
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reader, drashtipatel0118 +, writes (25 January 2011):
drashtipatel0118 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe did break up today =(
he thinks we are only friends and we are through.
he screwed me over. for the 10th time and i just dont know what to do
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (25 January 2011):
Break up with him and find someone who won't treat you like crap. I'm so sorry he's behaving like this towards you, especially as you've asked him to stop and he hasn't!
He probably calls them these nicknames so tht he doesn't have to remember the names of the girl he is texting..
I suggest you sit him down, tell him exactly what you feel. Don't give him an ultimatum though, cause tht will freak him right out. Just say you don't like it and you want it to stop, plain and simple. If he doesn't, then you need to show him the door, and find someone who will respect you and treat you right
Hope this helps :)
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