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writes:so me and my ex were together for over a year and lived together for about 7 months. He broke up with me a couple of times bc things were "too stressfull" him not working ect. We've been broken up for about 3 weeks now. The last thing we talked about is that he wants to be with me but feels that a lot of work has to be done for us to work. We had unprotected sex 1x in the midst of the last 3 weeks. He said he thinks I'm pregnant and I am. he asked me what I was going to do and I said that I was unsure. He changed his # the same day (jan 20) I confirmed my pregnancy. Now what should I do? Will he contact me? Why did he change his #? (He's 26 with his own 2 kids and I'm 23 w/my 1 kid)
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (25 January 2011):
 That is a decision you need to make now without him. If you decide to have the baby,a changed number won't mean a thing to child support! They will find him. My concern is you now,do you want a baby at this time in your life? The chances are you will raise the baby alone. Are you ready for that? To have unprotected sex was a decision the two of you made and he should have some say so,over whether you keep the baby,but since he changed his number and hasn't contacted you it's on you. I wouldn't try to find him. Think of what you want and go from there. Remember he's not in your life and this baby won't bring him back. An Ex is just that an EX. It's always best to look forward and never back. Don't give him any more sex,he's not your MAN! Let him get it from who has his phone number! He will come back for sex if nothing else,just wait you'll see! Good luck in your decision!
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