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writes:hey (:okay basically me and my bf have been together for nearly 9 months we are absolutely perfect together, but recently he has been more annoying around his mates he brings up stuff like when I texted him quite late at night ages ago but he has told all his mates I text him at like 2 in the morning and he keeps saying I'm stress and stroppy then his mates start laughing it makes me look stupid.Its not like things aren't ok he is still bothered about stuff and he hates my mates cos they keep trying to split us up and he cares about me but he keeps turning things around on me and says that I am horrible too him and he has been a bit more aggressively toned with me?Is it possible he doesn't like the fact I am 3 months older than him? his birthday is still 2 months away and he has been more like this since after my birthday he likes to be in control but I think he is just going through a phase is this possible or is it something else?its really annoying help plz? x
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (28 March 2013):
 OP,To me it looks like 'the both of you were never perfect together',you assumed you were perfect,and wanted it to be perfect!What's important now is you sit your boyfriend down and have 'the talk'..Tell him you don't like the way he potrays you in front of his friends and if he has any problem with you he should come talk to you!And you need to make things clear with your boyfriend that your mates are not creating a problem between the both of you, instead it's him.Tell him your mates have always supported your decision to date him and he has nothing to be insecure about!Now you need to tell him if he's ready to change?Tell him his current behaviour is crossing your point of patience and after this you don't and will not put up with such behaviour!Good luck OP
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2013): If I were you, I'd end the relationship and move on. If he runs after you, that will mean that he does like you and wants to be with you. If not, there's your answer... He doesn't.
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reader, Got Issues +, writes (27 March 2013):
 If you read back through your own OP, it doesn't sound like you are perfect for each other. He's annoying you, talking about you to his friends, your friends are trying to split you up (why? Tell them to butt out) and you think he's annoyed with you because your birthday is before his. That doesn't sound great to me. Maybe it's time to call time on this relationship before you end up resenting him.
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