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writes:dear cupid my boyfriend has been very "busy" lately. I'll call him and he will either be sleeping or "busy", and then hes like I'll call you back but he never does!i always wind up calling him the next day and i don't see him as much as i would like to. I let him know this. I told him i dont like that i don't see you as much as i would like to. Hes like but i have a job now. A person isnt that busy! He could take a few minutes to call me, couldn't he? i just dont know what to think and tomorrows valentines day im still waiting for his answer to tell me if hes coming or not? i hope he comes to see me! What do you think is going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 It hurts to deal with the reality but if someone is interested in being with you and making you happy..then thats what he/she will do! If you are having to fight for his attention, competing with friends, job, etc... then its usually a good idea to back off a little and give the person some time to clearly think things through. By constantly being the one to ask for attention, he will start to lose respect for you.. coz he knows you will be sitting by the phone waiting for him to call. You are maybe what can be considered "too available"! Break this habit now.. go out... have fun and don't wait around for someone to make time for you!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2013): It is courteous to call someone back when you say you will, and rude and inconsiderate not too. I suggest you stop contacting him, and let him put in some effort...., or you will end up doing all the work. He will treat you how you let him treat you. What I mean is, walk away and get busy. If he wants to treat you well, then give him your time, if he doesn't want to treat you well....find someone that does.
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