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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently, me and my boyfriends best friend has been texting, nothing about love or anything like that, just harmless chatting, we have become best friends and other people think we are cheating. My boyfriend has found out and is cross with the situation, he believes nothing has happend but it appears that he doesnt trust me enough. Please help on what i can do, as i love him so much please dont say the main thing in a relationship is to have trust as i know. please help.x
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reader, trying2help  +, writes (19 October 2008):
I also agree with "qcumbr1", that's a great idea. This will prove to your boyfriend that nothing is going on and make him feel more at ease, and be able to trust.Great advice qcumbr1:)
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reader, trying2help +, writes (18 October 2008):
Hi:) I'm sorry to tell you what you already know, but trust is very important in ANY relationship. If he doesn't trust you then I can't see the relationship being a healthy one. There is nothing wrong with being best friends/ close friends with someone of the opposite sex. There are some females out there who simply get along better with males than with females. You need to talk to your boyfriend about this situation, and convince him that you and his best friend are simply 'just friends'. If your boyfriend is worth having a serious long-term relationship with, he certainly will TRUST you, and not feel insecure or threatened when you spend time with his best friend. Wish you all the best:)
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