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writes:This is such a cliche question, but the circumstances are always different! Okay so I've had this guy friend that I sort of knew/ was friends with my freshman year when he was a senior. When he graduated that year we lost touch. Now I'm going into my senior year and he's in college out of state and we started talking on facebook after I commented on one of his pictures. First he just left a wall post but then really recently he gave me his number and IMs me almost everytime I'm online. He always initiates the conversation first and is always trying to make me laugh and yet we can still have a serious conversation. Speaking of which, we went into the topic of guys and when I said I had never been in a relationship he seemed really interested in why I hadn't and then when I told him a specific situation that annoyed me about what guys do he seemed concerned as to if it was a particular guy or just guys in general. Now I know this seems really obvious right now, but I know that he calls other girls some of the pet names he's said to me and I know he's a really friendly guy. Plus, he's in another state and roughly 3 years older than me so I don't know if he'd even be thinking of me that way. So I think I've told you all the information you need to know, what do you think?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Some ppl on facebook are better left as friend not added..He sounds like he's into u, but be careful if he's that guy who calls every girl "baby", sweetie", etc...those are the very flirty, friendly ones..who like lots of ladies and really have a hard time just choosing one. One he's away to college, so even if u started dating him ud be constantly worried abput what he's doing where he's goin etc..due to the fact he's a flirty one. Do u really want to put urself through that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): Hello!!Well, based on my experiences with facebook, I would advice you not to put your hopes with this guy too high. It hurts to fall. I was reading a post from another person last night about facebook not being real and hiding emotions. It's true. On facebook, any action can have different meaning for everyone. Dont put up your hopes too high, ok? Whatever happens happens! I would say: don't give it too much attention and keep/treat him as a friend. You will know if you guys can get to be more than friends in the future. Take care!:P
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