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writes:Hi everyone. Well, let me tell you a little story. As you are aware I am currently in a relationship now and are also aware about the problems that she and I have gone through so I won't touch on this that much. Kristina, that's her name, and I have been with each other for over nine months now and even though she and I have gone through many problems, we've managed to stay strong in the relationship. More recently I have went to a website where I talk to a psychic of my choosing and I just wanted them to see about all of my situations that involves me and her. There were a few psychics that have told me that she and I have a big connection and this is highly true because you might remember on a question that I have asked several months ago and I wrote on there that both she and I couldn't sleep because we were thinking about each other. It made me feel like she was the one I was looking for all this time.There was one psychic who hit me very hard because he accurately knew my situations and he told me that Kristina and I were meant to be because we have that connection with each other, but because of our problems we feel a little distant relationship wise, but he told me that it will change and she and I will be fully open with each other. Other psychics says the very same thing, but several minutes ago another psychic told me that someone else will come into my life. This girl would have something in common with me and if I choose that path, then I would see this girl in the next six months. The psychic did say that it's my free will and I can choose whoever I can be with.I know for a fact that I still want to be with Kristina because even though sometimes we have our problems, we have always try our best to work together because that's what love is all about. Again I honestly feel like Kristina is the one for me because although sometimes she can be moody and childish at times, but I feel that as long as I try to be patient and caring for her, then I know that I have made the right choice to be with her. Kristina said to me that it is our free will to choose what and who we want in our lives and that is why I still choose her because she is someone who makes me feel happy to be with, even though we have our problems. I don't care what those psychics said to me, I still want to be with her. Reply to this Article
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reader, Ihurt2 +, writes (3 December 2009):
 You put out the word “problems” a few times. I get the vibe that you are using these “Psychics” to justify why you stay with her? Don’t fool yourself, sometimes it may seem hard to start over or to be single especially when you want a relationship so bad, but the longer you wait the harder it gets. There is something that your gut tells you that you aren’t listening to and you shouldn’t ignore that. The psychic should be for fun and entertainment.
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reader, Neoloverboy23 +, writes (2 December 2009):
Neoloverboy23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Samanthax! I mean I just wanted to see what they see about the situations that I'm in and hopefully I make sure to follow my heart, mind, and my intuition to make my own decisions. :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I think there can be a danger of relying too much on what psychics say. I went through a phase where I saw a lady with clairvoyant powers regularly. She was very accurate about some general things, but other things puzzled me. But I thought she knew best. I also started experimenting with tarot cards, and various other things like that. Trying to find "answers".
It really stressed me out. In relationships, I panicked when I was told something bad would happen, and would try to follow any advice from these divinitary means as much as possible, even if it felt wrong to me. Basically, I ignored my own judgement and followed other people's guidance.
In the end, I stopped seeing the psychic lady, and stopped using tarot cards. I decided to follow my OWN guidance. And I feel much better for it. I am not trying to say that people claiming to be psychic are not genuine, nor am I trying to say that the use of things like tarot cards is wrong. But I do think that it is more important to listen to our own instincts and intuition. I believe that we all deep down have the answers to whatever questions we hold. Seeing psychics can help give us things to think about, perhaps, but I think the final decisions should be our own.
I am really glad to hear that you have decided to listen to your own feelings about your relationship! What I would say is, try to put out of your mind whatever anyone else may have said. It could just niggle in your head and get in the way. You are being realistic about your relationship, you sound down to earth...so go for it! None of us can know what may happen in the future, but I think if we follow our own instincts about what is right, we can't go far wrong.
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