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writes: hi, i think my boyfriend has cheated on me with my worst enemy....but i love him. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): A good start would be to ask him!
Then give us an update :)
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (13 June 2006):
 You should have the right to be angry at him for what hes done, but not because hes cheated on you with your 'enemy', but because hes cheated on you...period! I absolutely hate to advice breakups unless I deem appropriate, and in your case, Id say its your call and judgement on whether you want to have him back or not. Whatever you do, just bear in mind that cheaters usually never change! Good luck!
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 Relationships are not just about love, they are about trust and communication too. In fact love can never be enough to sustain a relationship on its own. If your boyfriend cheated then it means he doesn't respect you and/or has no moral standards, or low self control. Whatever the exact reasons, they are all grounds for leaving him. The fact that he has done the dirty with someone who you despise just furthers the evidence that he doesn't respect you or care what you think. Love yourself a little more, love him a little less and show him the door...
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
 dear reader you need to find out the truth ask around, ask him but get to the bottom of it i hope it don't turn out to be true
keep me posted
find the truth xxx
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