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writes: For once in my life ive met a lovely man who texts me and rings me all the time, ive met him 6 times now over the last couple of months, we have got closer and both really feel for one another, but he has only been split up from his wife since begin a Jan this year, although things havn't been right between them for 2 years, she left him and his two older children havn't spoken to him since.He is sad and reckons im his ray of sunshine that keeps him going. He text me today saying he saw his daughter in Tescos and she gave him a cuddle, he text me saying he feels so much happier. I have said to him I don't want to get hurt and i could be your rebound but he insists im not a rebound he really likes me a lot. I do feel though that im giving him the love and attention he is lacking and once he feels stronger and gets his kids back, he may not need me anymore, then i will be hurt. He says he doesn't want his wife back at all. Part of me is so happy as i never thought i would find such a lovely man but on the other hand im sad, as I feel it's too good to be true and all end in tears for me anyway. Please help
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Hey Huni,
He may want his children back in his life but he certainly wouldnt leave you for them hes excited tht there talking again but he doesnt have the same love for them as he does a women thats a fartherly love not a realationship love he'll still want you cuz he still needs his cuddles and kisses dont keep sayin to him tht ur the rebound because you dont want to make him down especially now things are lookin up for him jus go with it i think that you'll be just fine Good Luck
Helen x
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
 dear reader don't always think negative i would say if you just take things slow they will be fine in the end you both have admitted you feel for eachother so why not just have fun together for the time being to make sure this is not just a rebound thing. i'm currently in a relationship that was based on a rebound (on his part) we are now engaged and have 2 kids together, been together almost 6 years so i am living proof it could work don't worry too much about "what might be" start enjoying eachother and be happyall the best to you keep me posted xxx
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