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writes:i have a big problem. you will think im awful and thats fine coz i think i am i just cant help myself. i have a boyfriend of 3 years. i know he loves me but my parents majorly disaprove of me seeing him. i love him but lately little things have been driving me away from him. i am cheating on him. i love two people, though the second one is incredibly hard work i fancy him much more. i know i have to end the relationship with one or both but i cant and i dont know which one to choose and i cant bear to be without either of them.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 First of all, I would need to say that cheating is not right. That does not make you the worst of persons, but it is not right, and you should stop it. How would you feel if your boyfriend were cheating on you?
I think only you can tell who you prefer. But, you'll have to lose one of them. Eventually someone will find out about the cheating and you'll end up with no one.
I would suggest that you think hard about your feelings and expectations. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): I understand exactly. If that makes me a bad person too, I don't care. I cheated on my boyfriend. It was a one off thing but the guy was amazing in bed and such a nice guy. It's driving me nuts and this is with the knowledge that I dont have to pick cos I know I dont want to be with the other guy.Nobody can decide for you. But it's unfair for both of them to keep it up. Try talking to your boyfriend asking if he def sees a future and if he still feels the same way for you because you're having little doubts. Don't know if this is of any help..
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