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writes:is this normal, or should I be concerned?My boyfriend had a friend from out of town visit for a week and pretty much disappeared on me. They've been out from morning until night the whole time. Although my bf has texted me things like "I miss you," we haven't had a conversation the whole time. I'm just a little hurt but mostly concerned about what this could mean. I wonder first of all, that he didn't even think to introduce me to his friend. He says he loves me, etc, but if I were so very important in his life, I would think he would want his friends to know about me. But he didn't think to do that (and I'm not asking to hang out with them, I know boys will be boys and need time to hang out and have fun, and I know my bf needed to play the host. I just thought at some point I'd get to meet this friend). I'm also concerned though, that he couldn't even find time to talk to me this whole week, for updates or anything. We usually talk everyday, and again, I understand he's had his hands full playing the host. But if we can't even keep in touch and have a conversation now and then...well I don't even know what to think. It somehow doesn't seem right to me, but I don't know. Is this normal? Should I be concerned?
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reader, incendia1990 +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Well for one thing, is this friend a girl? It sounds like he is preoccupied. The question is why and why is he not introducing you to his friends. You need to sit and have a serious talk with him and if he refuses or gets mad, then he clearly isn't respecting your feelings and you should make it known that you deserve better than that because you do.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (1 August 2011):
How long have you been dating?
Are you sure the friend is male? I'm not trying to make you paranoid - but I agree it's a bit odd to not even get a quick meeting.
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