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writes: My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me. I couldn't fight back because he was too strong. What should I do now? He has apologised but I'm not convinced!
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reader, Garfield2254 +, writes (26 September 2007):
Well there are 2 types of person, one who takes the punishment time and time again, eventually leaves that person ,then immeadiatly finds another just like the last one and goes through it all over again.
Or the person who walks away the first time and makes sure they never find another hitter.
You know it makes sence
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (26 September 2007):
Anybody who does this does not deserve to be in a relationship with you, it is as simple as that.
Dump Him Now.
There is no excuse for a guy who does something as cowardly as this unless you attacked him and he was responding in self defence.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 September 2007):
The problem with abusive relationships where a woman has been hit they always apologise and say it won't happen again. But invariable it does happen again, and it turns into a vicious merrygoround where the woman is frightened to leave. You have been hit once that really should be good enough reason to walk away, you say yourself you are not convinced. You can either stay and risk getting hit again, or walk away from the whole thing, personally i would go for the latter.
Mail me if you want to talk, take care x
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (26 September 2007):
Hunnie, leave now that you can, because once a man puts his hands on you and you stay there he will do it over and over and over again time after time. I was in relationships where the man was good to me for about a yr then hit me and i still stayed with him. BUt as time went on he hit me more and more. So get out now.!
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