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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my boyfriend fingers me regularly but sometimes i start bleeding. i know its not my period because its regular ands not due and the first time i didnt care cuz that was when he broke my hymen. whats going on? is something wrong with me?
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (22 November 2008):
it could be a medical problem but more then likely it is just the fact that your boyfriend is being too rough.
for some reason young guys think that poking us really fast and rough is pleasureable for us. well guys it's not!
teach him to stay away from your vaginal opening and show him how to stimulate your clit. thats another area they like to poke roughly. it;s all about a really light finger, almost a tickle. he needs to learn to be gentle and not treat your vagina how he treats his penis. i think they think because they like to be handled rough and fast, us girls like it like that. but it just hurts and is awful. so guys please stop!
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reader, molly4 +, writes (22 November 2008):
it could be a bacterial growth in the cervix, go to a doctor or have someone take a look inside if u have a speculum, there will be a brown ring at the entrace if its infectedthe inside of the vagina is also very weak so long/sharp fingernails can damage it. make sure he washes his hands!
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