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female
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anonymous
writes: Why does my boyfriend not want to go down on me? He says he doesn't like to do it but I'm worried that it is me.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (26 June 2007):
Not all guys like going down on a girl. Just the same as not all girls like giving blow jobs. Explain to your guy that it would be nice for him to do it once every so often as you enjoy it or whatever.
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female
reader, Hopeful +, writes (20 June 2006):
It's not you. It's him.
If it's a big deal, tell him that it turns you on when he does it and that if he wants oral, he has to give as well as receive
or if not, I'm sure there are other ways he can satisfy you.
Just make sure that its not all one way in the bedroom, that both of you give and receive pleasure.
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reader, toritor567 +, writes (20 June 2006):
find a new bf
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Well, it's easier to clean a penis since it protrudes out than clean a vagina since it's internal. I've tasted vagina... Can I use "pussy" instead? [ahem] I've tasted pussies and the majority of them and in the majority of the time, pussies tastes terrible. As I told someone recently, it often tastes like expired milk.
Plus it takes a lot more work to stick my tongue out and lick it or try to stick it inside of her. It's really really really tiring to have my tongue out constantly.
However, it's emotionally satisfying to see her writhe around all wet and horny, moaning and telling me some nasty things to do to her, etc. [laughs]
[ahem] Yes, but no matter how emotionally satisfying it may be, the pussy monster is still yucky in taste. I feel like I just repeated myself many times... 8/
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (19 June 2006):
There's stuff we all don't like doing and some of that stuff we can grin and bear it and other stuff, we just can't! Don't beat yourself up about this, some men don't like to do this ever. You wouldn't like him pressurising you into anything so don't do it to him either. Do things you both enjoy, that way it's fair. You wouldn't enjoy it anyway, if you knew you'd forced him into it and he didn't like it, would you?! I'm sure it's not you, but do what Yos said: don't do it to him and he'll soon come round! Ha!
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reader, Yos +, writes (19 June 2006):
Well its certainly not you, it's him. I suggest that you withhold any oral sex from you to him (blow jobs). Tell him that if he wants a blow job he needs to give you oral sex first. You'll soon find out that he doesn't mind going down on you as much as he thought.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (19 June 2006):
dear reader. there's nothing to be worried about here a lot of men don't like to do oral sex, it just does apeal to them and has nothing to do with you.there's far plenty of more exiting things you could try together.don't worry about it all the best xxx
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