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My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex!

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Question - (19 June 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Why does my boyfriend not want to go down on me? He says he doesn't like to do it but I'm worried that it is me.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntNot all guys like going down on a girl. Just the same as not all girls like giving blow jobs. Explain to your guy that it would be nice for him to do it once every so often as you enjoy it or whatever.

xxxxxx

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A female reader, Hopeful +, writes (20 June 2006):

Hopeful agony auntIt's not you. It's him.

If it's a big deal, tell him that it turns you on when he does it and that if he wants oral, he has to give as well as receive

or if not, I'm sure there are other ways he can satisfy you.

Just make sure that its not all one way in the bedroom, that both of you give and receive pleasure.

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A female reader, toritor567 +, writes (20 June 2006):

find a new bf

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

Well, it's easier to clean a penis since it protrudes out than clean a vagina since it's internal. I've tasted vagina... Can I use "pussy" instead? [ahem] I've tasted pussies and the majority of them and in the majority of the time, pussies tastes terrible. As I told someone recently, it often tastes like expired milk.

Plus it takes a lot more work to stick my tongue out and lick it or try to stick it inside of her. It's really really really tiring to have my tongue out constantly.

However, it's emotionally satisfying to see her writhe around all wet and horny, moaning and telling me some nasty things to do to her, etc. [laughs]

[ahem] Yes, but no matter how emotionally satisfying it may be, the pussy monster is still yucky in taste. I feel like I just repeated myself many times... 8/

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2006):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntThere's stuff we all don't like doing and some of that stuff we can grin and bear it and other stuff, we just can't! Don't beat yourself up about this, some men don't like to do this ever. You wouldn't like him pressurising you into anything so don't do it to him either. Do things you both enjoy, that way it's fair. You wouldn't enjoy it anyway, if you knew you'd forced him into it and he didn't like it, would you?! I'm sure it's not you, but do what Yos said: don't do it to him and he'll soon come round! Ha!

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (19 June 2006):

Yos agony auntWell its certainly not you, it's him. I suggest that you withhold any oral sex from you to him (blow jobs). Tell him that if he wants a blow job he needs to give you oral sex first. You'll soon find out that he doesn't mind going down on you as much as he thought.

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A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (19 June 2006):

auntie claire agony auntdear reader. there's nothing to be worried about here a lot of men don't like to do oral sex, it just does apeal to them and has nothing to do with you.

there's far plenty of more exiting things you could try together.

don't worry about it

all the best xxx

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