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writes:me and my boyfriend always fight,mainly because he cheats, and hes not discreet. does it show that he disrespects me, or does he want to get rid of me indirectly Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): What are you still doing with this guy if you know he's cheating on you? He obviously has no respect for you and thinks that you are going to put up with his behaviour! He thinks he can have his cake and eat it too!!!
No one should have to put up with that crap! My ex boyf cheated one meonce, stupidly I forgave him til I found out not even 2 months later he was still cheatin - with my best friend! So I just totally finished with him and wanted nothing to do with her either!
There's plenty of guys out there who will respect and appreciate you so there's no need to put up with your boyf! Let him know that too and be strong and finish with him!!!
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reader, Farris  +, writes (15 May 2007):
 I'm not sure whether he's trying to tell you that he wants to get rid of you, but he definitely doesn't respect you, and you should leave him if you're really not okay with having this kind of a relationship.
If you've made it clear that you only want a monogamous relationship, and yet he still goes with these other women, then this relationship is only going to give you misery.
Leave him and find someone who does want to be with only you.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): he wouldnt be so in your face if he respected you.hes doing all these things in front of you?why are you with him?you sound like youve got very low self esteem and need to find your own self respect.also have you thought about the health implications of what hes doing?
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reader, tinkers +, writes (15 May 2007):
I no that nobody can tell you what to do, but in my opinion i would of been out of there the first time i found out he cheated on you, he doesnt deserve you, even though you may love him to bits, he's never goin to stop cheating on you, once a cheat always a cheat! all i want to say to you is good luck but dont stand for it! x
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reader, tinkers +, writes (15 May 2007):
I no that nobody can tell you what to do, but in my opinion i would of been out of there the first time i found out he cheated on you, he doesnt deserve you, even though you may love him to bits, he's never goin to stop cheating on you, once a cheat always a cheat! all i want to say to you is good luck but dont stand for it! x
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