My Boyfriend cheated on me twice,should I forgive him?

A female age 30-35, *rs.lonelyme writes:

So here's the story.. My bf cheated me before once,when were new in our relationship, where been togther on april 2009, and then I found out that he has a contact with his ex gf and told her that he still loves her and wants to be with her and is willing to leave me just for her.After that he explained and I forgave him since I understand the situation that were just in 2 months relationship and he promise that will never do that again. I gave him a condition after that, I told him to delete her in his facebook,so that he will never be tempt to talk to her again,or check what is happening to her. Now, were been together for 1 year and 5 months, and everything seem to be so great,he really loves me,and I can feel it. One day I came to his house and open my facebook acct, I was suddenly curious before I log in to my acct because I saw an another email in facebook,I rush to log in my acct abd check if that email was existing in facebook,and when I search I was shocked that It appeared and his ex gf was only his friend in that acct,so meaning they still have a communication after all.I ask him what's the meaning of this,and he told me that it was long ago,I opened that acct I saw that they still had a conversation that last up to december,and right now Im so confuse if they still had a communcation in these past few months or days. He was even get angry to me and also agreed to me to break up with him,he even told me that he already found a reason to leave me. please help me,i dont know how to move on from him

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