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*elpingHand7
writes:ok so heres the deal ive been dating a girl for a while and when we're together and alone we get VERY affectionate as in 3rd base and during that time when we are in the moment we talk about sex and how at the time we both really want to do it but we dont we usually run outta time and have to go. but when we arent in the moment like when we are just talking over the computer or on the phone we agreed it would be better if we waited. to be honest im not sure what im asking advice on but i'd just like some of your oppinions on what you would do in this situation Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): no offense but i honestly think by looking at your age category (13-15) that you are a little young to be thinking about sex. coming from someone who lost their own virginity at 14 you're not emotionally ready. i don't regret my decision, but the person I'm with now isn't the same person i lost my virginity to and i sort of wish it was. i don't regret it, but I'm definetly NOT telling my kids that their mom lost it at 14, a ridiculosly young age..but you can't change your past so think about this one long and hard! oh and waiting is always your best bet..
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Hi darlin'
I think you made a good decision. Waiting is always a good one - there's never a need to rush. Just remember, you're got the rest of your life to be having sex. Why ruin the anticipation? That's half the fun!!
Keep exploring each other's bodies and enjoy it thoroughly. Make sure you're safe about it, because you can STILL GET STD'S FROM ORAL SEX!! Remember that, okay? Just because you're safe from pregnancy, doesn't mean you're safe from everything else. Herpes, HIV, and many more... it CAN happen!
Okay, sweetness. I think you guys really made the right decision. Congratulations! You both sound very mature. Enjoy your relationship, friendship, and bedroom fun!
Have fun!
xxIndia
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (25 August 2007):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am a male and i am dating a female im not quite sure why the admins put that title but whatever
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