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writes:I hope someone can help me. I ended a relationship with my boyfriend a couple of months ago because there was someone else he was seeing...he admitted it. I had to get in touch with him last week. I got this machine and he promptly called back. He sounded pleasant and said it was good to hear from me. He mentioned that'we'had been on holiday...I assumed we meant himself and his new girlfriend and he also mentioned a girl who used to call him on a regular basis and who we argued about. I did give him a reaction. Is this his way of letting me know that we could be just friends or is he lashing out at me a bit. All replies appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I can't really tell but either way he sounds really insensitive. You shouldn't focus on why he did or said that, you should only focus on the fact that he did, period. That's all that matters. And how ever it made you feel, is what you should take it to mean.Like if I called my ex and he was talking about someone who had been the cause of many arguments, I would take it to mean that he just did not have any respect for me and my feelings and I would try not to contact him.
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