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writes:My boyfriend and I, fight constantly! It's about everything. No matter what I do, we must talk about it. When he does something wrong, we aren't allowed to talk about it. He gets mad at me for yelling at him at the big things he does, but he yells at me for stupid little things. I've been dealing with this for a year. I don't know what to do!! Reply to this Question
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reader, MissAttitude  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 its exactly the same with my boyfriend, everything i do gets talked about but the things he says and does gets swept under the carpet and never spoke about again, but when i do bring it up he just says im bringing up the past and theres no point. however i recently found out that after 3 and 1/2years together, he cheated on me when we first started goin out, so the answer before this may be right, he might be feeling guilty about something and trying to turn it round onto you. needless to say my boyfriend never explained hmself fully but when we do argue, i bring it up and he changes his tune immediately. good luck try and talk it out its hard but it may work x
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reader, PhilManco +, writes (25 July 2007):
 If you're fighting all of the time over trivial things, I would think that there is probably something deeper bothering one of you. Is there something that one of you is resentful about in the relationship?Usually, surface sensitivity is just a way of masking a more significant problem. I've experienced it more than once in my own life. If, deep down, you're not bothered by something that he's said or done, sit him down and have a talk to talk. Maybe he's resentful about something...
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (25 July 2007):
 personally it sounds to me like you need to end the relationship, if its really as bad as you say it is then theres no point in staying. however there is an alternative side simply sit him down and talk to him tell him about how you feel regaurding the arguements. odds are that that will lead to more conflict but if you want to salvage the relationship it must be done and you must make him see what hes doing.hope this helps, keep me posted
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reader, L.O.V.E. +, writes (25 July 2007):
he's cheating on you or there is no more love thier between you two.
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