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writes:my husband is 35 years old im 50. how can i get him to want me sexually? im 5"3 and weigh 190 lbs. could it be my weight? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): Maybe its the age difference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): You can do one of two things or both, heck:1) Talk to him and ask what's going (in a loving manner). He could be stressed, worried, no libido recently...whatever. Ask him how you can help.2) You could knock him off his feet by surprising him when he gets home by romantically decorating the house to "put him in the mood" or even being secretive, directing him on what to do and giving him his own peep show with costumes or alluring dances.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Have a nice long chat with him and find out what's going on. Guessing at the reasons why is fruitless. Once you know the problem you can then find the appropriate solution. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): If he really loves you he wouldn't care about how much you weigh. But then again it might not be about your weight. Age might be another factor (although he knew about the age gap when he married you). Also work stress and other factors could also contribute to this.
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reader, LISAG +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Could be, could be lots of other things, could be your attitude, could be work pressures, children pressures, just things getting in the way ! In all honesty it sounds like you need to shake things up a bit or a lot ?!
Things have prob. just become "the usual" - happens to everyone - you're married! so things probably have become a bit routine ! There are lots of books out there about keeping the magic alive, regain the spark etc... hunt down a good relationship/sexual learning book...
You will read and probably be surprised how your own behaviour can change the balance in your relationship !
Get reading and learning ! Good luck !
PS You have the advantage usually as the older woman always !
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