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writes: My boss is nice, straight, married and a father, but I love him. I didn't mean for this to happen, but when I started I picked up on a lot of subtle sexual energy directed towards me. I flirted with it and openly told him that we have an unusually close and playful relationship. He's in a new marriage with a new baby, but they're not happy. Although I have a lover, it's unusual for me to feel this off-balance. Is it a fantasy, destiny, silliness, or a mature reckoning or beauty manifest between two men of equal minds?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Hi, im in a similar situation to you, i have fallen for my boss and he is married but loves his wife. To be honest in time you will get over it and my advice is to stay clear of anything happening as you will feel terrible afterwards and maybe this will result in unhappiness at work. I didnt, i let the lust get the better of me and now im working and uncomfortable, i suggest you back off from the flirting as it can be dangerous but your the only one that can decide. Hope all goes well and i do sympathise
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 Honey, when I read this letter of yours, I had two things come to mind... namely,
You certainly have been foward with your nice straight boss, I'm surprised you are still employed. And...
You have no regard for either your partner.. or your boss's wife and baby...It seems to be all about YOU ?
Yes, you are indeed living in a dream world all of your own I am sorry to say.
Take Care, and keep a look out over your shoulder... the boss's wife could get wind of this, you just never know...
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