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writes: Hi, I'm 12 and I have a bit of a problem on my hands. You see last night I was texting my boyfriend on my cell. He wanted to know when were going to kiss. I practically jumped because he was way off topic all of a sudden. Anyhow I asked him 'when would you like to kiss?' He said next time we meet. So I just went along with it and said sure, I guess. Well today when we met he said his cousin got a hold of his phone and he was the one texting me not my boyfriend! Now I'm disappionted because I thought he really wanted to kiss me. So I was thinking to pretend to be my cousin and find out through texting if he wants to kiss me.Is this a good idea? Because I really can't ask him myself. It would be weird!
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reader, loveable rogue +, writes (23 February 2006):
heyaok first of its a bad idea... hes not stupid (i asume i never meet him) he would figure it out because... trust me. any way hes your boyfriend ask him. you should never be with someone you cant trust. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,this is the female writer and i found out that my boyfriend does want to kiss me,but i have yet told him i want to kiss him because i don't know how to kiss and he told me he already had his first kiss.So i'm afraid i'll make a fool out of myself.Can u guys help me out and give me a few pointers?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Do not pretend to be your cousin. If he found out, he would dump you. Im sure of it. If you really do want to kiss him. Just tell him, us boys find it hard to tell girls these things, if you said this to him and he wants to kiss. He will be relieved and will think there is nothing wrong with it.Ask him, if he says no, just build up the relationship more, go a bit slower.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (22 February 2006):
yes it would be weird but when i was a bit younger, probably a couple of years older than you are now, i had a boyfriend who i thought didn't want to kiss me. so i asked him and he did kiss me! it might work. it might also be that he just wants to know if you WANT to kiss him but not sure if he is ready to kiss you yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Just ask him yourself. Feeling "weird" is just a minor mentality best to rid of. The best way to solve problems is get to the core of the 'problem'. Beating around the bush and misleading people may cause even more headaches. If you don't learn that now at a youthful age, you may get into a lot of messes at an elder age when things can be more difficult to solve - eg: the majority of relationship problems on DearCupid.org. Lack of communication, asking strangers for advice, etc are all a part of this concept.
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