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writes: I suspect my boyfriend may be gay....I know he's bisexual,bbut he tells me he sees men as sex objects and women to treat nicely and end up with. He tells me he wants a family with me one day.I'm scared he just wants me for my ability to one day have his children! Also we are apart quite a lot due our jobs and he wants us our relationship to be open while we are apart! Is this just because he wants to sleep with men? I have tried talking to him about it but he gets upset that I would think this of him!! I do love him very much!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Adrenna_Lynn  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 sorry, i do not have an answer for you but i have the same problem. My boyfriend and i are both bisexual. But i am starting to think that maybe...maybe hes gay. it hurts to think about and i know you must be hurting too. he dated one of my best friends (which is a boy) and i am fine with that. but he is starting to talk to him more and more. he says he loves me and he couldnt imagine being without me. IS THERE ANYONE READING THIS THAT COULD ANSWER BOTH OF OUR PROBLEMS?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2006): My boyfriend just came out and told me he was bi and i wasnt shocked becuase i always joked around with him and told him he was gay ha ha ha becuase of the things hed do or say just gave a few signs but i was never really sure except he might not know hes gay right now. Now that he told me it wierd I still love hom and he says he still wants to marry me and have a family but im confused.
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (23 May 2005):
The fact that he gets upset with you when you want to discuss this makes me think that he is also struggling with the same question. Is he really just gay? An open relationship will also leave you "open" to many diseases. Please be very carefull with this and DO NOT have a child with any man you are not very sure of, and you don't sound like you are. Rethink this relationship if he cannot open up to you about it, but be sure you really want to hear the answers.
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