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writes: hi im 13 and i was raped by my 13 year okld boyfriend and think i might be pregnant i know he was only joking around and he thought i was joking when i said no because i had been talking about it please help me.
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female
reader, Shelbyy-x  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 sweetie im 14 years old.i was touched and raped all through out my life and i actually got raped and knew what he was doing when i was 12 it completely changed me.and sweetie dont ever let anyone hurt you or touch you in that kind of way unless you want it to happen.i regret losing my virginity so young.please make sure you are VERY ready when you have sex.and if you ever need anything e mail me.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 He couldn't have jokingly raped you.
Now I've never raped a girl, but I think if I was having sex with a girl, and she started panicking and screaming "No!", I'd get the point and pull my pants up.
Do three things:
1. Dump that sorry excuse of a boyfriend.
2. Tell your parents, or someone you can trust.
3. Take a pregnancy test.
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reader, saf  +, writes (28 November 2007):
hi sweet heart dont worry, i am a mum of two listen you need to tell someone or talk to someone older if you like you can send me a private email so i can phone you and help you,youve got me worried and dont like the fact that you have been raped, you need medical attention. love saf ill pray for you.
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reader, laniegirl +, writes (28 November 2007):
bunny, if you dont want to tell your parents or anyone else thats ok, as long as you see a doctor. im sure they wouldnt tell your parents if you didnt want them to, but things my pop up on med/insurance bills :(
it really helps to talk to someone about it. if i were in your situation id be totally pissed, so id personally have one of my guy friends kick his ass...but thats rude so take everyone elses advice and go to the police. its your choice, but make sure you make the right one. just because you like him and may not want to lose him over this doesnt mean hes better than any other rapist and you have to protect him. you will find so many more guys who are better (and probably cuter) than this boy who are not likely to rape you.
sex is never a joke. rape is lesser so. i really hope you choose yourself over this skanky boy :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): This was a very stupid and cruel action on your boyfriend's part. This is an extremely illegal thing as it was rape and underage sex. Go and speak to your gp or local family planning clinic as all advice and pregnancy testing is confidential. I would also tell a close friend and the police if you can. He's not good enough for you. xx
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (27 November 2007):
 hun
im so sorry to hear about that.
rape is a really hard and sore subject for those who have experienced it.
but you do need to talk to an adult about it. I know you may "love" your boyfriend, but he isnt worth it.
he hurt you and scared you.
leave him, talk to an adult, and report the situation.
Im sorry again...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): Report it.
The only thing to do. He needs to learn the hard way that when a girl says no, it means no.
I know its harder for guy to just stop than it is for a girl, but its no excuse.
Flynn 24
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Rape is a very serious crime and regardless of whether he was messing around or not you need to tell someone and think about whether you want to press charges and then go to your doctor and get checked out im really sorry this has hapopoend to you but if you need to talk to someone who has been threw it please message me and if you want more opinions or advice i can give you a really helpful site thats full of lovely supprtive people.
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reader, Lillia +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Hiyyaa :)
Oh dearr...
Youu need to tell a parent or guardian about thiss. They will give you the best advice and the next step from hear beacuse it is quite serious.
You may not want to becausee you like this boy, but you have to.
Then as the others said see a doctor.!
Good Luckk x
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reader, love-him +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Hey sugar. Your boyfriend has madde a very bad and serious mistake. You need to tell an adult that you trust and if possible report him to the police. He needs to know what he has done wrong. You should see a doctor about maybe being pregnant. Dont throw away or wash any clothing you had on at the time and keep any evidence.. Stay safe, I hope i helped and feel free to mail me about anything x
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reader, calamitysil +, writes (26 November 2007):
 This is a very serious situation. The first thing you need to do is speak to your parents and then see your doctor. You don't say when it happened? If it's very recent, and you haven't yet washed away the evidence, then go straight to A+E for a check up.The police will need to be involved as this is a serious crime regardless of the fact he's a minor.No means NO, and the fact that he didn't stop means he's committed a crime. You are not to blame here. Whatever you do, talk to someone even if it's only your best friend, but really your parents should be your biggest support at a time like this.
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