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writes: When my boyfriend fingers me I don't feel anything 'nice' at all, even when he rubs where my clitoris is. I've never had sex and I'm worried I won't be able to have an orgasm.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Sounds like you're just too uptight about the whole experience. Relax and enjoy it...it'll happen sooner or later. Don't fret over something you have no control over. When it finally does happen you'll be amazed at how easy it was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): Is their anyone that can tell me if you have sex without contraception but no perm enters is their still a chance of the girl becoming pregnant?
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reader, Luven_him +, writes (4 October 2006):
Well usually when my fiance' fingers me, it doesnt feel good for awhile yet..Maybe its like that with you too?..Ive always wondered if I was the only one. Maybe you dont do it long enough for it to feel good, usually takes me about 10-15 minutes for it to feel good, sometimes longer depends what he is doing to help me..Haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): maybe it's the strength of touch? try being stroked through knickers or sheet in case gentle touching is more stimulating.
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reader, shania  +, writes (1 July 2006):
 Does your boyfriend just finger you while you are bone dry? because if he is then its no wonder you are not enjoying it.A woman needs a lot of stimulation like plenty of cuddles and kisses....having her body explored,what she doesn't need is some guy using his hands like shovels.Maybe your fella needs to take his time 1st before he goes "down there"...Foreplay is the key word so really when you are turned on enough then you will get naturally wet and start to enjoy being fingered,it will help if you try it on your own 1st so that you will know what you like...then you can guide your boyfriend...as they say,Practise makes perfect.
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reader, sammie +, writes (1 July 2006):
 not everyone enjoys being fingered it is just one of them things i just think maybe you should tell him then you can think of things that will be better there is other things he could use on you there are plenty of sex toys out there for you to try it doesnt have to be a vibrator it could be something to stimulate your clitoris hope this helps and dont worry you will orgasm and when you do you will no it haha samx
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (1 July 2006):
 not everyone enjoys being fingered and most guys believe they know what there doing they don't,.....so it doesn't mean you'll never have an orgasm don't worry. if your boyfriends are into ingering you and you don't enjoy but want to maybe you should tell him so he can try and improve.
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