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writes:Okay. So Thursday will be my bf and I's 10 month anniversary. when I met him back in March I thought he was the perfect guy for me and I had never felt this way about anyone. I felt this way until a little over 2 weeks ago I caught him lying to me. We live an hour away from each other and I went to hangout with my friends in the town where he lives. Well I saw him hanging out with one of his friends but he told me he was doing somthing else that night. So needless to say, there was a scene. We broke up and got back together and we are totally fine when were together but we can't seem to get along when were on the phone. Should I break up with him or what? This guy is only 17 and I'm 18. Are we just too young?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): You know it's extremely possible that his plans changed. Maybe he told you he was doing one thing, and then those plans got screwed up so he made new plans with a different friend. I don't see it as much to break up over. But, if you feel like he truly broke your trust then the relationship will never be successful so if you can't move past it then breaking up would be wise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): i think this is pretty petty a guy is aloud to change his mind without consulting you its not like you found him with another woman..... if you keep hassling him he will nagged by you and the least thing you need to do his make him feel like he is married with kids he is 17 for gods sake .... if you hold him back from being with his mates he will detest you .... as for arguing on the phone don t bite it sounds like you challenge each other and maybe you wind each other up.
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reader, confussedlove +, writes (30 January 2007):
confussedlove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for that advice!!! I don't know y he lied either. it was a guy that he was with. but latley hes been telling me that after he lied to me and he swore he never woudl he doesnt deserve me. And he also says he thinks that I only think that I have feelings for him. But i do. I love him with all my heart. I dont get y we cant get along when were not together..
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Even if he was hanging out with one of his friends, why would he need to lie to you about that? There's nothing wrong with hanging around with his friends unless of course, this friend was female!!!! (Enough said!) If this IS the case then it's guilt talking and he's probably been up to no good. I may be totally wrong here of course but why else would he try and cover up the fact?
Lots of people have very successful relationships at 17 and 18 years of age. Don't get too serious too quickly, let your relationship grow by finding out more about one another and seeing how you both tick. As you both grow and mature you'll know for yourself whether or not you're right for one another.
Eve
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