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writes:My boyfriend told me he had cheated on me. But now ive found out that, apparently he did push her off. Its just that he pushed her off so hard she fell awkwardly on her back and looked like she was really hurt. He said he told her to get off, and when she didnt he grabbed her sholders and told her to get off again in which she apparently ignored hin. He said she made him feel trapped so after he pushed her off he just left and ran. He said he would rather me think hes a cheater than a woman beater. Also, we went out one night with a friend of mine and a guy me and my friend went to school with started mouthing off and insulting me. I found out my boyfriend beat him up when i wasnt around to. The guy he beat up is a gobby druggie though and i dont give a dam about him. In just confused though, should i beleive him or is he just trying to cover up. There would be no reason to lie about it if he had really cheated on me because we agreed to get over that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who has given me feedback. Anymore advice is welcome. And to the annoymous answerer, no he doesnt drink.Like i said anymore advice is welcome. Thanks all x.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Well good on your boyfriend for sticking up for you about the drugged up s.o.b and I dont think he has a temper problem, any guy would've done that (or should've) especially at 16-17 (the hellraiser years!:-P) and about the girl, I guess its possible. You haven't exactly described the problem. Did he cheat or did he beat up a lady? Is that what you're asking?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 January 2007):
 It sounds to me as if your boyfriend seems to have a bit of a temper on him, beating up this guy and throwing this other girl off of him. Have you ever noticed him quick to anger?
You need to decide for yourself here whether you trust and believe him or not. I would wipe the slate clean here but just watch him carefully regards his temper. After all, YOU don't want to end up the one on the other side of it.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): it sounds like your bf has trouble controling his temper maybe its drink i ve seen it happen in my past just be careful that he does nt turn on you, i would give him the benefit of the doubt for now as everyone deserves a second chance, but make sure you get the truth out of him and let him know that you don t like the person he becomes when he is violent as he may think you like being protected and may make him feel the big man...good luck
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