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writes: My ex boyfriend just left me saying he dosent want a relationship if it is that hard. he has lived with me for 2 yrs, and we dated 2yrs before that. He also works with me, so its hard to see him and know hes not comming home. he says i complain too much about him going out, yet i wouldnt mind if he only gave me quality time, ive told him this but hes always right. he says he wont see anyone else, and he says hes done with me forever. the first few days i blew up his phone but then i quit, so hes calling me now, not to get back just to see whats up. he also has touched me and just does things that i thought if you were thru u wouldnt do? how do i get him back? do u think hes finished or just needs space?
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I would leave him be and let him have some space to himself, if he wants to be with you he will be sure to come running back especially if your not chasing him all the time as that will just remind him why he ended the relationship and make him freak out more.
I know it is probably hard not to contact him and try to get him back but you need to be strong, he needs to feel you have possibly accepted what he said to you and that way he will realise what he really wants and feels.
Good luck, hope things work out :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): i think he just needs some time
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 I think he thought you would keep chasing him and now you have stopped he is beggining to panic. I dont think he really wants it to be the end, I just think that he needed his breathing space for a bit.
I dont really agree with playing games but all I can suggest to you is play hard to get, act like you are not interested and I am sure he will come running.
In the mean time why not get a makeover, pamper yourself a bit, this will make him think that you are getting over him and I promise he will panic and he will start chasing you. Good luck and remember stay away from that phone!!!!
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