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writes: Hey,I have recently finished in a long term relationship and so am a little rusty on the whole dating business again, some pointers would be useful.I have started college and there is this guy I like, hes started eating his lunch with me and my mates and when he is talking he directs 75% of his eye contact at me. The other day someone else was talking, I went to turn round and he was looking at me so our eyes met and we held eye contact for a fair few seconds.The next day we were all reading through his car magazine, when I had an interest in it he said I could keep it if I wanted it. Later that afternoon my mate said he must like me, she was looking at the magazine with him too but he give it to me.He talks to me alot and always holds eye contact with me, he smiles and tries to make me laugh.He was in my last class today and before we finished I looked up and he was looking at me again, which resulted in more eye contact.I am a little shy but if I could get a moment alone I would ask him if he fancies a drink or something sometime, I just want a little more reassurance before going into this. I am a little worried I would make a fool of myself if I have been reading things the wrong way.Thanks!
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 Well from everything you've said I would say he is into you, maybe if you was to get him alone and start chatting he might say something himself if he doesn't then maybe you could just casually ask him if he fancied meeting up for a drink keeping an eye on his reaction to this would help determind whether to add about bringing some friends along and you could rope some of your friends into this too.
Good luck, let me know how you get on :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006): It sounds as if he is keen on getting to know you better either on a friendship bases or something more serious.Why not casually say that you and a few of your mates are going out for a drink and then say why dont you come with a few of your mates then we can get to know each other better that way it sounds casual enough and see how the night goes.You wont make a fool of yourself saying this as it sounds more like a get together with each others friends and see how it goes between yourselfs and then if it goes well maybe you could say next time as weve had a good night why dont we just go out together.or maybe he might suggest himself.Good luck xx
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