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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have this bf and we'v been dating for almost 2 months. The thing is his always complaing I take up much of his time and he doesn't have time alone. We see each other on sat and sundays and sumdays during the week for an hour or he will sleep by me. This morning we had a minor argument cause he don't wanna cum to me for the weekend. It's our first easter weekend together i reali wanted to speand it with him and do sumting special.I also told him that he can get a weekend a month off but I specifically asked him a few weeks ago what's he gonna do easter and he said he wanted to spend it with me, if he had told me then that he didnt wanna then I cudve gone camping with my friends.Another thing last month he lied to me and said he was working, wen in actual fact he went out to his friend's braai. Am i over protective? all i want is just to spend weekends with him. I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, nologo  +, writes (6 April 2007):
 No, I don't think you are over protective.
I do think he is more introverted than you.
This explains why he complains you take up much of his time and he doesn't have time alone.
What you should think about is why "last month he lied to me and said he was working..."
If this repeats, next time go camping with your friends or have some fun on your own.
For you it would be really interesting to learn what he's gonna say in such situation.
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