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*ate2
writes:my boyfriend fantersises over cheating on me. hes saying he likes the feeling but in reality he would never do it as he loves me. do you belive him? or do u think hes fed up of me? and wants to find someone else thats why hes fatasing over cheating? im the same person who worte bout my boyfriend who fantasises and masterbates over his ex. pls reply and give me your opinions as im so hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): hes a twat leave him if he says shit like that girl xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): I agree with DrPete on this. What an unthinking thing to tell you. This bf does sounds very uncaring and realize one very important factor here. When he says unecssary crap like this, it doesn't make you happy, does it? It makes you experience hurt. One doesn't accept this type of 'dysfunctional BS' to invade their relationship. So it's plain to see that if he's telling you he fanatsizes about cheating, then that is a delibrate attempt to knock you off balance. And by doing this, hun..he's making it clear that your happiness is not that important to him. Cut this louse loose and go find a great guy who respects you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): Honest opinion, OK - If someone said that to me I'd be inclined to think they probably had cheated on me and were trying to relief some of their guilt. No doubt about it.
You don't fantasise about cheating on someone you care about and then tell them! He seems oblivious to your feelings and how him cheating would hurt you.
I think Kate that this guy maybe isn't good boyfriend material, he certainly doesn't seem like it to me. You look out for yourself, OK? :)
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reader, kate2 +, writes (5 April 2007):
kate2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your reply, its just that he says hes serious sbout me. and stuff then he says this. dunno what to think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): It depends who it is that he is fantasising about. If it is someone famous, like a popstar or a movie star then it looks like you have nothing to worry about but if it is someone like his ex then you could be in danger. He really shouldn't have said this to you. Maybe he wants you to be jealous about his fantasies. Whatever it is if you can't trust him and live every waking moment apart worrying that he's cheating on you then leave him. He shouldn't have planted that seed in your head nor should have told you that he fantasises and masterbates over his ex. At your age the dating scene should be fun, not worrying.
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