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writes:hi I was in a three year relationship with my boyfriend and he got another female pregnant the girl knew we were together but she didnt care and they went on with this now i think he is going to marry her this is heartbreaking for me because i was always there for this guy i helped him out when he needed when he lost his jobs i was there how can he be so wicked please i need help in dealing with this thank u
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): I'm sorry this hurts, and I'm sorry to say that theres no magic cure, there is only time.
You're single now, maybe you should spend the time you devoted to him, and helping him, finding yourself, loving the person you are.
You could also spend this time with your friends, or family, and meeting new people.
Although you've lost a boyfriend, you've gained your own future back, to do with what you wish, and to meet better nicer people.
You're best shot of him sweetie :)
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reader, agony_uncle_r  +, writes (14 March 2007):
it hurts to lose someone but from what youve said about this guy. youve got away lucky, shes going to have to look after two kids when shes married him.move on and in time youll find the guy worthy of your attention and obvious loving nature
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 He cheated on you, he doesn't care about practicing safe sex, he can't hold a job... I know it hurts and you feel betrayed but, honestly, wouldn't you be better off giving all that support and love to a stand up kind of guy instead? You deserve so much more for yourself, Honey. Take Care.
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (14 March 2007):
 He's a complete waste of your time. He's cheated on you with her and got her pregnant. Don’t be involved in that honey, just think yourself looky you didn’t end up pregnant to him. I promise you now he will do the same to her, as he's done to you. Guys like that never change
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Unfortunately, and much as it hurts, he is (or ought to be) your EX boyfriend if he's going to marry someone else!
You were there for him when he needed support, but I'm afraid there probably was something about your and his relationship that really didn't "fit" with what he was looking for. That happens. And "being there" for him evidently was not enough in his mind to ultimately make your relationship work.
He isn't wicked; just has made another choice. The other girl could not have "stolen" him from you if HE didn't choose to be with her, rather than you. Now YOU should go about making a choice of your own: to leave him in the past and move forward with your life! Be angry, grieve over the loss, and see what you can learn from it and the things you want, and do not want, in your next relationship. If you can do this, you will have benefitted and be a much stronger, more confident person. You will in time, I hope, meet a fella who values and appreciates YOU for who you are, and he will want to be with you long-term. You deserve that.
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