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writes:I've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and im in love with him. but recenlty he's started working away and i've felt lonely and slept with his freind - i feel really guilty and don't know what to do. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (3 December 2007):
 That was stupid!!! With his friend??? Sometimes I just have to say how it is. You have no real choice, he'll probably find out. You'll have to tell him.
What would you do if he told you he slept with your friend??
You need to figure out why you did this and how you can prevent it from happening again. You're not a teenager, you're a woman.
Richard
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (3 December 2007):
I think you've heard the common advise.TELL HIM.What you did is wrong and you should try and seek forgiveness and the 1st step is to inform your man of what you did.If you truly love him,tell him all and promise it will never happen again.If he truly loves you,he'll forgive you.If he doesn't move on and don't make the same mistake twice.All the best and take care.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Hi
You would have to tell him or the guilt would eat you up inside. It is understandable that you would feel lonely after the change but you have to be strong for your relationship to survive. Just remember that you and your bf have a realtionship b/c you love each other and you shouldnt allow anyone come between yourll. Just tell your bf and hope he understands.
Regards
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Well you are probably really use to someone being by yourside and the moment that you start feeling lonely, you seek for company. Sweetie tell your boyfriend what you have done. Dont keep anything from him because if you are " IN LOVE" with him as much as you claim you are, then lying to him will only hurt him and yourself the most. It'll hurt him a lot when he finds out it was with his friend but it'll kill him having to find out from someone else. Have the courage to let him know what happened and take responsibility for your actions.
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