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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:heyi reali love my boyfriend and i never want to break up with him. he means a lot to me so if im going to receive advice on breaking up then please keep your advice to yourself. ive been with him for 3 years and every moment i spend with him is magical and hes just the best, he loves me a lot to and would do anything for me. but recently hes really changed. his attitude expresses that he isnt really bothered about me, and doesnt care about my feelings. he doesnt seem to care whether i even decide to leave him. before, he would do anything at all for me, no matter how big it was. but now even when i ask him to do something little and ridiculous for me, he would say no. it seems like now he sees me as a person to come to when hes horny. he hurts me by critising my religion, doing things i dont like him doing which he knows about etc.i cant live without him. i want him to be the way he used 2 be. please helpthanksxxx
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (10 October 2008):
 What you need here is communication! Does he know how you feel? You need to talk to him about it. Don't accuse him, just talk to him. Be open, tell him how you feel. The first magic flush wears off pretty fast in any relationship, after that you settle down to the business of actually being a couple. And for any relationship to work, you need to talk, talk, talk. Don't let it build up and become a major problem between you. Get it out into the open.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (10 October 2008):
Its normal for people to change after being together a while, after the 'honeymoon period' as its commonly known. But if his behaviour upsets you, you should really talk to him about it. He probably has no idea how you are feeling. x
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