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writes:Okay, so this is really weird, but any help would be much appreciated..!I had noticed that whenever my boyfriend of 5 months(who is 18) and I(16) are on a night out together and have been drinking, he tends not to speak to me very much at all, and one of the only times he did was at the end of the night and he was very ill.He brought it up the other day and said that he doesn't know why but whenever he's been drinking, he can't talk to or be around a girl he knows he's going to get with for very long at all or else he suddenly feels very physically sick and has to move away.I know this might sound as though he's making it up or something but i assure you he's not! And he is just as confused and upset by it as I am. It's the same with going out for a meal too, and this strange problem really does ruin any night we try to have out together.Has anyone else heard of this at all? Or has any suggestions of how to overcome it? Hypnosis? Anything?! Any help would be greatly appreciated, thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): how bout he just stops drinking? (OR stops drinking around you.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): The man needs a shrink.
Because this sounds like some sort of compulsion, or nurosis.
Like an irrational fear of cats or flying or fluffy little bunnies.
So go see a shrink and get this matter sorted.
Flynn 24
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reader, rcn  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 This does sound weird. He needs to get checked by a doctor. The only one I can think of off the top of my head is anxiety.
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