A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey My Name Is Amy.Basicaly (im sorry if you get confused, it is quite confusing)i met two friends years ago called kai and joss and they were the nicest boys ever. At the time i also had a friend called gwen. Gwen introduced me to her friend amy. So then, it was me, kai and joss and we were all best friends. It was also Me, Amy and Gwen All best friend. Then One day Gwen starts dating Joss and Kai starts dating Amy. This really hit me. Kai and joss think i'm trying to split everyone up which i did try to do at one point. Gwen and amy live ages away from me kai and joss o they have to arange meetings. When kai, Amy, Gwen and Joss all met they took pictures of them snogging and that made me cry. Recently Kai, Gwen and Joss have been bullyin me saying they dont want me in their life. It led up to me being suicidal and hurting myslf. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (25 September 2008):
 Poor Blossom.
It is horrible, truely horrible that you are feeling this way.
You have to tell your parents, honey, if you want this to work out. They aren't nice friends and you deserve better.
I would look around for other friends, or even other schools. if you feel suicidal you have to talk to someone. You know. I'm sure someone will put the number for it and it's probably pasted round your shcool, but the people on CHILDLINE are really good about this, it is like this site but these people won't judge you and will here you out and be easy to talk to.
I think your "friends" ore truely vile and should value you more. I would start again and move shcools. Soon. You don't ever have to feel this way - it's not right.
Tell your Mum/Dad/variations there of (I do so like being politcally correct) asap or a teacher you know. I find it really hard to talk to teachers but sometimes it does help.
Once, when my friend moved i told my teacher how much i missed her and everything and he was really nice about it and has never mentioned it again. I was crying my eyes out but I think he knew what i meant... Oh don't you just love being a teenager?
Well, I have to go but do PM me. i do enjoy talking (You can probably tell).
Best of luck,
Jelly
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reader, Talksense +, writes (25 September 2008):
Hi, Woah There!! Take it easy and stop talkin all that suicidal stuff you're young and got your whole life ahead of you. Obviously, you seem to be the one being left out from the bunch and you didn't want to feel left out (i know how that feels). These people are not your real friends as friends don't bully, the two boys you've only known for 2 years but it seems you've known Gwen longer am i right?
She's a girl and i would be most upset with her really, but what about your other friend Amy who Gwen introduced you to, you did not mention her if she isn't involved can't you talk to her maybe she aint like the others. Whatever you do just don't do anything silly and get some new friends and concentrate on other things because they were all dating they wanna leave you out, 'True Friends' don't so that especially girls.
Keep in touch and keep your head up!! Smile
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): They are mean, they aren't your friends, friends don't behave like that, Make some new real friends.
Good luck
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