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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi readers. My best friend of 2 years is now becoming jealous of me and my guy friend. She's very dramatic and sensitive and Ive dealt with it all our relationship. She's known him longer than I have but this past summer we really became friendly and started texting and hanging out. I personally don't like him but other people tell me he likes me. When school started we would all hang out in our group of 10 or whatever at lunch but me and him would usually stand together and talk because she was on the other side of the area talking with other people. Today I tried talking to her several times and she ignored me or just walked away and it seemed she didn't want anything to do with me. I talk to her and spend more time with her than him but it seems like even if I wave to him or say one word she gets mad at me. How can I confront her on this or include her without her walking away 2 seconds later??
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 August 2012):
 why are you hanging out and texting a boy you don't like?
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (31 August 2012):
 Talk to her and tell her that you are sorry if she feels left out and that is not your intention. The thing is, as we get older, this sometimes happens betweens friends and there is really nothing you can do about it. Friends develop stronger bonds with other and you naturally move in the direction of people you are supposed to go. If you keep trying and she doesn't come around, I would just leave her alone and let things take their natural course. You can tell her you still care and try to make her feel better, but the truth is...you may not be able to.
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